It wasn't your fault : freeing yourself from the shame of childhood abuse with the power of self-compassion / Beverly Engel.
"Shame is one of the most destructive of human emotions. If you suffered childhood physical or sexual abuse, you may experience such intense feelings of shame that it almost seems to define you as a person. In order to begin healing, it's important for you to know that it wasn't your fault. In this gentle guide, therapist and childhood abuse expert Beverly Engel presents a mindfulness and compassion-based therapeutic approach to help you overcome the debilitating shame that keeps you tied to the past. By following the step-by-step exercises in this book, you'll gain a greater understanding of the root cause of your shame. And by cultivating compassion toward yourself, you will begin to heal and move past your painful experiences. Recent studies show that trauma survivors, particularly those with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) resulting from abuse, can greatly benefit from incorporating elements of self-compassion into their treatment. Furthermore, the practice of self-compassion has been shown to decrease PTSD symptoms, including, self-criticism, thought suppression, and rumination. This book is based on the author's powerful and effective Compassion Cure program. With this book, you will develop the skills needed to finally put a stop the crippling self-blame that keeps you from moving on and being happy. You'll learn to focus on your strengths, your courage, and your extraordinary ability to survive. Most of all, you'll learn to replace shame with its counter emotion--pride."--Publisher's description.
Record details
- ISBN: 1626250995
- ISBN: 9781626250994
- Physical Description: vi, 256 pages ; 23 cm
- Publisher: Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, Inc., [2015]
Content descriptions
Bibliography, etc. Note: | Includes bibliographical references (pages 253-256). |
Formatted Contents Note: | Part I Shame/Compassion Connection -- 1 How and Why Child Abuse Creates Shame 17 -- 2 Why Shame Is So Debilitating 33 -- 3 How Compassion Can Heal the Shame of Childhood Abuse 51 -- Part II Compassion Cure Program -- 4 Obstacles to Self-Compassion 67 -- 5 Receiving Compassion from Others 91 -- 6 Allowing Yourself to Feel Your Pain 107 -- Part III Practicing the Five Aspects of Self-Compassion -- 7 Self-Understanding 133 -- 8 Self-Forgiveness 159 -- 9 Self-Acceptance 185 -- 10 Self-Kindness 207 -- 11 Self-Encouragement 227. |
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Subject: | Adult child abuse victims. Self-help techniques. Emotion-focused therapy. Compassion > Psychological aspects. |
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